Women's Rights?

I just want to thank the Lord for allowing me to be born during this time period. I have just been reading about the war between the Benjamites and the Israelites in Judges. The thing that got me was that they went to war because the Benjamites murdered a Levite concubine and then the Israelites felt bad because they didn't give the Benjamites wives to continue their tribe's lineage. So what was the obvious solution? To go out and kidnap a wife....!
Now, I don't know about you, but I personally don't know how I would feel if I was having a good ol' time at the festival and all of the sudden ol' boy just came out the woods and kidnapped me and said I had to be his wife?!
All I can say is thank you Lord for again allowing me to be born during this time period.
Holla!